I would say that I am quite a bit larger than most of my friends, them being size 6, 8, 10's and me being, well a rather a lot bigger at a 14/16.
There's a lot of different angles you can look at about being big, obviously there is always going to be the people who will mock you for being larger than others but that's just something that's going to happen. Everyone gets picked on for something and I guess mine is just that I am a big person - I'm not saying it's right for people to get picked on for being any different, because it definitely isn't - but what I am saying is that it is going to happen no matter what is different about you and these are things that we have to come to terms with. I just don't see what's so wrong with being different? I don't believe that anybody is perfect and everybody has their flaws, but it's those flaws that make us the people we are and nobody should mock us for them!
Obviously, I would much rather be slimmer than a size 14 at the age of 15 and I'm sure any of you who were given the chance would change something about themselves but to be honest it's so easy to think that you are so horrible and disgusting and agree with the people that may be insulting you "oh maybe I am a fat walrus" "maybe I am too fat" "maybe I should stop eating to be skinnier" but I promise you that you are not and you should not, I repeat should NOT ever put yourself down because You. Are. Beautiful.
I've been bigger than most of my friends now ever since I moved in with my Dad when I was in year 5, I don't know why but that is when I remember I started getting bigger than everybody else and I've been following diets and exercise regimes since about year seven and it sounds weird but I just honestly don't think my body wants to be any skinnier and it's got to the stage after all of these fitness things and all the pressure I've put on myself that I've realised that I am happy like this and I do not need to change for anybody.
An added bonus by the way - is the fact that I can dip in and out of the "plus sizes" as I please and it's great! I can usually find whatever I want in the sales by dipping between the two hehe!
So what I'm trying to say is you should be happy with who you are because after all, no matter how much you change you will always be you and that's great! I'm not sure if anybody would have got anything from this but if you did that's brilliant!
I'll be back to more fashion bits in the next few days so keep your eyes O.O peeled!
Thanks for reading
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Obviously, I would much rather be slimmer than a size 14 at the age of 15 and I'm sure any of you who were given the chance would change something about themselves but to be honest it's so easy to think that you are so horrible and disgusting and agree with the people that may be insulting you "oh maybe I am a fat walrus" "maybe I am too fat" "maybe I should stop eating to be skinnier" but I promise you that you are not and you should not, I repeat should NOT ever put yourself down because You. Are. Beautiful.
I've been bigger than most of my friends now ever since I moved in with my Dad when I was in year 5, I don't know why but that is when I remember I started getting bigger than everybody else and I've been following diets and exercise regimes since about year seven and it sounds weird but I just honestly don't think my body wants to be any skinnier and it's got to the stage after all of these fitness things and all the pressure I've put on myself that I've realised that I am happy like this and I do not need to change for anybody.
An added bonus by the way - is the fact that I can dip in and out of the "plus sizes" as I please and it's great! I can usually find whatever I want in the sales by dipping between the two hehe!
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I'll be back to more fashion bits in the next few days so keep your eyes O.O peeled!
Thanks for reading
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this is such an inspirational post. I'm 16 and a size 16 (heading towards an 18!). I'm glad you've accepted what your body is naturally:-) and if people feel the need to make stupid remarks about your weight then that's just a reflection of what a nasty, vindictive person they are, as opposed to the 'type' of person you are. stay strong lovely! I hope you're okay aswell (from the beginning bit of your post). Love your blog! x x x
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Sorry about only just replying! Thank you so much for your comment its so sweet! And I am fine now thank you for asking. I look forward to hearing from you soon x x x
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